<子育てパパ応援隊>Children Learn What They Live ~ 子は親の鏡 – Well-Watered Garden

CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry to themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and it those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place to live.

copyright@1972,Dorothy Law Nolte,Ph,D
— 読み進める blog.goo.ne.jp/snowwhitejn22/e/8e17a4d0d431721f15368a2c6dd9bcce

これは猛省:「静かになるから」とスマホで動画を見せられ続ける子どもの末路 – 青春オンライン

アラームやブザーなどの電子音、大型テレビの映像、そして動画などが映し出されたスマホの画面……。こうした現代生活にあふれる刺激は、幼児や赤ちゃんに逃れられない「攻撃」を知らず知らずのうちに与えてしまっているのかもしれません。特に、今や私たちの生活に欠かすことのできない「スマホ」を、もっと慎重に扱ってほしい――。幼児教育者の虹乃美稀子さんは、このように話しています。実は親にこそ、「スマホ力」が求められているのです 。
— 読み進める seishun.jp/entry/20201127/1606467600